FARMINGTON - â€śI tell people we are like a cruise that doesnâ€™t move,â€ť said Frank Rende, community sales director of Atria Farmington.
The senior living facility held its first Wise & Well Health Fair saturday.
â€śItâ€™s an opportunity for us to have people come visit our community, and we have so many people and resources we use in the community it gives them the chance to showcase their services too,â€ť Rende said.
Vendors on hand for the fair included CT Thermography; Encompass Health, which provides physical therapy at Atria; Forever Fit, which runs the twice daily exercise classes; Walmart, which provided immunizations and blood pressure checks that day; Seasons Hospice & Palliative Care; and Visiting Angels.
Visitors also got to see the daily activity schedule, which included gin rummy in the cafe, fitness classes, bingo, a meeting of the gardening club, meditation, a social hour, an evening stroll, and movie night and popcorn.
During the health fair, several speakers answering questions about life at Atria.
Lisa Navarra talked about â€śEncouraging the Move to Assisted Livingâ€ť with a group of about 20 people, including current residents, potential residents, and people who were checking the facility out for their parents.
Navarra is a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist.
â€śIâ€™m not employed by Atria, I come in on Thursdays. I run a monthly support group here, where we talk about grief and loss and change and adjustment, and I also do individual psychotherapy,â€ť she explained.
She encouraged those attending her talk to discuss issues such as the difficulty for the elderly in downsizing their lives, giving up their longtime homes and independence to move into a smaller, more regulated place.
There are many positive sides to making the move, such as not having to worry about maintaining houses and lawns, preparing meals, keeping up social ties or driving around to do errands, she noted.
Caregiverstress can be a real issue, she said.
â€śI would meet with the clients and then with their children, who were usually the caregivers. Caregivers have a high level of stress, and what I had found was it complicates the relationship with them and the elderly person. When somebody moves into a facility, itâ€™s an improvement in the relationship. The child isnâ€™t as stressed out, they can sit and enjoy a meal with the parent.â€ť
There is a wide spectrum of attitudes among assisted living residents, Navarra continued. â€śI talk to people who love it here, who feel such a sense of relief that everything is taken care of for you. Then thereâ€™s the other extreme. It can be a really big loss for people, losing their home and what it represents. When youâ€™re in your home youâ€™re the boss, and when you come here there are rules to follow.â€ť
There was a general consensus among the residents present that the staff is very caring and patient.
â€śI brought my mother here for a visit and the staff was really nice,â€ť one woman said. â€śIt must be contagious, because everybody living here is really friendly. My mother was impressed because she is having a hard time about leaving her home.â€ť
Constance LaSala, who is â€śmadam presidentâ€ť of the residents council, agreed. Anyone can bring up any issue at the council meetings, she said. â€śThen I take it to the staff and we discuss it. Nine out of 10 times what we want has been approved.â€ť
For instance, the seats in the movie theater are very large and comfortable but they take up a lot of space, she said. â€śA lot more residents are coming to the theater to see movies so Iâ€™m working with the staff to getting theater seating. Theyâ€™re really open and patient.â€ť
People also agreed the food is good, the chefs will accommodate dietary needs, and if you donâ€™t like whatâ€™s on the menu that day, you can get a hamburger or something else.
Navarra noted that some assisted living facilities have designated meal times, but at Atria Farmington itâ€™s open seating from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m.
Atria Farmington is at 111 Scott Swamp Road. For more information, call 860-284-0505 or visit AtriaFarmington.com.
Susan Corica can be reached at 860-973-1802 or firstname.lastname@example.org.