Newington serviceman's kin, friends send holiday cheer to entire unit

Published on Saturday, 18 November 2017 21:32
Written by Erica Schmitt

Staff Writer

NEWINGTON - More than a dozen people crowded into a corner of Starbucks on Main Street last week to package treats, personal care products, playing cards and letters for a local serviceman and his unit, deployed in Afghanistan.

Newington native Benjamin Arace, lead combat medic for the 1-504th Parachute Infantry Regiment, 82nd Airborne Division, can soon expect a shipment of boxes from his family and friends.

“It’s not just for him. It’s for his entire unit,” his mother, Gwyn Arace, explained. “They’re kind of in the thick of things right now. While we’re sitting here eating a turkey dinner this Thanksgiving, they’re adding water to a pack to make a meal. It means a lot to know someone is thinking about them.”

Ben Arace’s aunt and uncle, Russell and Cathy Dionne, and his cousins, Matthew and Samuel, were happy to help.

“We do stay in touch but we haven’t seen him for awhile,” Russell said.

The family included him in its fantasy football league this fall and the boys, ages 16 and 17, sometimes play video games over the internet with their 24-year-old cousin.

Starbucks Store Manager Tessa Pilkerton was looking for a military unit to sponsor this holiday season. She partnered with the Arace family and friends for Monday’s “packing party.” The store hosted the event and paid for the shipping costs.

Cub Scout Pack 347 also took part, adding letters they wrote. Each envelope was addressed “To any soldier.”

“It’s not only the little goodies we’re sending, it’s the notes,” Gwyn Arace pointed out. “Just to have that to read when they’re down and out may sound like the smallest thing but it really means quite a bit to these folks, especially if they’re lonesome.”

Nine-year-old Jack Garofolo drew a picture inside his letter.

“I told them, ‘Thank you for keeping our country safe,’ ” he said. “I hope you come back to your family safe and sound.”

Seven-year-old Sean Cashman also had a thank-you for the soldier who will receive his letter.

“Thank you for all you do in the military,” he wrote. “I hope you stay safe in the other countries.”

Ben Arace’s neighbor, Michelle Harter, stopped by the coffee shop to help, and was met by a full table of busy workers.

“I’m glad they had a great turnout,” she said.

Gwyn Arace was also glad to see the outpouring of support. When she’s missing her son, she often goes to friend Michele Zappala, whose son, Joshua Barrett, recently returned from Iraq.

“The boys went to school together,” Zappala explained. “When I found out Gwyn’s son was deployed I just reached out and offered support. It’s good to have someone to talk to and to rest assured. I told her, ‘No matter what, we’re always looking at the same moon as them, so we’re together.’ ”

Her son would often share the snacks and gifts he received overseas with his unit, Zappala pointed out.

“Some of these guys who live in other parts of the country, their families don’t have the money to send them things,” she added. “They really appreciate it.”

Erica Schmitt can be reached at 860-801-5097, or

Posted in New Britain Herald, General News, Newington on Saturday, 18 November 2017 21:32. Updated: Saturday, 18 November 2017 21:34.