Meet the Browns: Rha-Sheen and Briggitt's rise to prominence

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Sunday, January 22, 2012 9:51 PM EST
NEW BRITAIN — Briggitt Brown quiets her two youngest children as her husband, Rha-Sheen, explains to the crowd gathering at their church on Spring Street what it means to be anointed.

Brown, 32, the mother of six, including one adopted teen, or seven, if you count her niece who is staying in their home as she finishes high school in New Britain, was going to leave the young ones with her older children, but all had commitments on that night.

Instead 2-year-old Mia-Amor, 3-year-old Shemu-El and 8-year-old Genesis munch on McDonald’s Happy Meals as Brown prepares for a bible study class at Right Now Ministries, the church she and her husband founded six years ago as a way of helping city residents reach beyond poverty.

“I wish I had one more,” she admits with a laugh as she watches her two youngest sip from their juice boxes. “I always wanted to be a mother, then I realized, I can be a mother, I can be a student, I can be a social worker, an activist, I can be all that and a mother too.”

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As the chair of the North-Oak Revitalization Zone, the 32-year-old Brown has encouraged dozens of residents to take ownership of their neighborhood by attending monthly meetings and participating in outdoor clean up days and block watches to keep the new Willow Park free from damage and loitering.

She sits on the board of directors of the Opportunities Industrialization Center, she’s on the student governance council at Smalley School and was recently appointed to the police commission for her role as a community activist known for dissuading kids from joining gangs and resolving longstanding quality of life issues in her neighborhood.

She also ministers alongside her husband Rha-Sheen who was elected to the city council in November. Brown received her master’s degree in social work in May. She’s already pursuing an advanced degree that will allow her to start her own practice.

“She’s been a positive force for that neighborhood,” said Police Chief William Gagliardi who hears from Brown weekly about potential problems or community programs she’d like to stage.

Gagliardi ticks off the list of accomplishments Brown has completed by working with his department including keeping Willow Park safe for children and having police officers speak at the neighborhood group’s monthly meetings. She asks NRZ members to bring two friends when they attend meetings. “Her work is instilling a sense of community in people,” he said. “That’s exactly what we need.”

Brown freely admits that she was a teenage mother growing up in poverty in a rough area of New York with a drug addicted parent when she decided she wanted more. “I was on welfare, a teenage mother, but I was still going to school, I still wanted to finish,” she said. “I got my associate’s degree two years later and my bachelors two years after that. We wanted to be that inspiration to other youths, you can make a difference, you can be a mentor. We pride ourselves on being honest about where we came from.”

The Browns met when she was 17 while she was working as store clerk in New York City. He was a salesman peddling children’s books who had stopped in the store hoping to make a quick sale.

“He said excuse me miss, would you like to buy some books?” she recalled. She told him no, her younger sisters were too old for children’s books. He kept pestering her, her other family members? “How about your boyfriend’s kids?” he said.

“I told him I didn’t have a boyfriend and he said, then can I get your number?” she said with a laugh.

They married four years later and moved to New Britain in 2002. By then both were licensed ministers who knew they wanted to work with kids at risk even as they expanded their own family and took in others. “We have about 10 adopted children,” she said.

Rha-Sheen had taken to mentoring teens from the streets. He admits he had a life-changing experience last year when one young man he mentored was shot to death in April 2010.

He recalled Dionn Brown (no relation) as a loving kid who couldn’t break the cycle of gang violence. “He was a gang leader, at one point he used to sell drugs but he started to turn himself around,” Rha-Sheen said. “For him to be gunned down in the street, we were heart broken. I knew I could not allow another kid to die that summer.”

The couple collaborated on his funeral service held at the First Lutheran Church which was attended by hundreds of kids, many wearing red shirts signifying their involvement with “The Bloods,” a high profile street gang.

The Browns asked the mourners not to retaliate for Dionn’s death. “They made a commitment for there not to be any retaliation,” the 36-year-old Rha-Sheen said. “No gang members in New Britain have been killed since, we attribute that to that day.”

A few months later in July the Browns along with dozens of other churches staged a prayer walk throughout the city to encourage kids to turn away from violence. Participants were asked to drop their gang colors for the day in favor of white shirts. Hundreds showed up.

“One of the reasons kids join gangs is they want to be part of something bigger than themselves,” Rha-Sheen said. “If we can present something that can make them feel bigger, that’s why the march was so important, if we don’t present it, the gangs will.”

The husband and wife team are viewed as role models by parishioners, neighbors and city officials. “She’s a mom figure, open and loving but she gives correction,” explained Eric Facey as he helped Brown set up for a recent Thursday night Bible Study class. “She’s an awesome person, she doesn’t judge, she’s someone you can talk to but she’s not afraid to tell you when you’re wrong.”

The church has about 100 members, mostly those under 30, who attend a Sunday service, Bible study classes, men’s and women’s support groups, marriage counseling and marriage enrichment classes. As mentors, the Browns offer retreat trips designed to get kids out of the city and into “plush surroundings” which gives them a view of what life can be with an education, they explained.

This night’s Thursday Bible study lesson will focus on carrying the yoke of burdens, Rha-Sheen explains as members trickle in. By way of example, he calls two parishioners up to demonstrate a headlock. The anointing, the grace of God, “allows you to slip out,” he said.

He goes on to reference football player Tim Tebow which draws gales of laughter from the nearly three dozen adults and children seated in the modest church. Many are working parents who are going to school at the same time.

Brown looks on, sitting in “her” chair as parishioners called it, just feet from her husband and two youngest children. She laughs and cheers with the crowd as Rha-Sheen’s voice rises and falls as he ministers to their flock.

“When you profess what you believe, God has no boundaries,” he tells the group. “You can say I can go back to school and get my education no matter what my reading, no matter what my math, I can go back to school. I am better than my circumstances.”

Comments

Dobbs wrote on Jan 23, 2012 8:45 AM:

" It is not surprising that missing from this Herald puff piece is the fact that this Lib Dem Police Commissioner and City Councilman pair refuse to fulfill their tax obligations to the city. He will however be working hard along with Derwood and the Mayor to raise taxes on the rest of us this year. "

nobody wrote on Jan 23, 2012 11:07 AM:

" WHAT????????
Prominance?????????????????????

The Herald has cemented their reoutation if being LIBERAL. How they can praise and promote an TAX EVADER is betond all common sense. "

Lifelong Resident wrote on Jan 23, 2012 11:35 AM:

" Good for you for attempting to do good for your community Mr. & Mrs. Brown however, what does this say about the city that allows people who do not acknowledge their financial obligations to the city that you too can serve it really doesn't matter? It certainly should matter to all of the residents in this community wether ot not our elected and appointed officials have met their tax obligations. why was yhis not in the article NB Herald writer? Because Sherwood wanted a puff piece to try and deflect the criticism being levied against this administration for their lack of consciousness when picking who ran with them that's why! And we all know he has the writet on speed dial anyways! "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 23, 2012 5:02 PM:

" Membership in the New Britain Prominent Peoples Party, formerly known as The New Britain Democrat Party, does have its privileges. The first being you get to attend all the exclusive, invitation only, birthday celebrations sponsored by the city, and the second is your city tax payments are decreed optional by the mayor. You're also allowed unlimited access to The Herald's front page whenever you want a puff piece like this one printed about yourself. "

BigMac wrote on Jan 23, 2012 7:01 PM:

" A nice feelgood article about community outreach. But, don't quite understand all the political comments about tax evasion? "

Lisa Backus wrote on Jan 23, 2012 7:57 PM:

" Hi All,

It's Lisa Backus. I feel the need to clear up some misconceptions. Number one, Mr. Sherwood, didn't suggest the article. I attended a police pension board meeting where Police Chief William Gagliardi introduced the new police commission members and he spoke extensively on Briggett Brown's positive impact on her neighborhood. The next morning I called the chief to get her phone number.
As many of you know, I primarily cover crime - in fact I generally cover the worst this city has to offer. And I genuinely love it. I don't do it because it's sensational, I do it because I want people to know how easily one poor choice (and in a lot of cases, a lifetime of poor choices) can alter your life, or the lives of your loved ones and even strangers, forever. I also do it because I believe the system works better when court officials know someone is noting what takes place in the courtroom.
I spent much of today ocvering the arraignment of a city man accused of killing a resident in front of his home in 2010. I mentioned how the victim's mother remained in contact with police about the case until she died late last year - without seeing her son's alleged killer brought to justice. I've covered teens who savagely beat a stranger because they wanted candy from a local convenience store, the death of a young man caught up in a group taunting a kid over a dog, and in one instance, I seem to recall covering a 19-year-old mother who was trying to sell an automatic weapon on the streets.
When I heard about what the Brown's were doing to stop the cycle of violence and encourage kids to seek an education, I couldn't possibly turn my back on their story. As the chief said, "that's exactly what we need."
I certainly encourage readers to let me know about other success stories and I will be more than happy to write about those too.
I can be reached at (860) 225-4601, ext. 306. Bigmac, you're right, I don't understand all the political comments about tax evasion either.

P.S. I think if you talked to the public defenders office at New Britain Superior Court, I'm sure the word "liberal" is the last adjective they'd use to describe me . . . "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 24, 2012 10:07 AM:

" Would any experienced reporter expect the Police chief to offer anything but positive comments when introducing a newly appointed police commissioner? When it gets to the point where a reporter feels compelled to explain why her story was newsworthy, it probably wasn't.

As for the claim that Mr. Sherwood didn't suggest the article, it falls far short of claiming he had nothing to do with it. For all we know, he may have written the headline.

This type of "reporting" can quickly erode the public's perception of a journalist's integrity that may have taken the journalist years to build up. "

Lifelong Resident wrote on Jan 24, 2012 11:31 AM:

" Having to explain why one writes this story is pretty sad Ms.Backus. Nothing more than a puff piece to inflate the publics perception of these people who owe the city a debt, their taxes. You may tghink it is irrelevant but many do not in fact it should have disqualified them from serving this city in any capacity. Unfortunately the general public, or should I rephrase that by saying the small group of people that come out and vote today, obviously does not care as the majority of those people probably do not own property they just get railroaded to come out and vote democratic!
If it looks and smells like a fish it probably is! "

JustSaying wrote on Jan 24, 2012 3:47 PM:

" Perhaps the people complaining on this comment page should attend all of the meetings currently being held by the Browns in order to improve the city of New Britain and see for themselves what is going on and not just placing uneducated negative comments at the bottom of what I personally believe is a wonderful article. I do find that no matter the article, there are always those same people who are so negative they couldnt possibly see light in anything in their surroundings. If you see the need for change in your city then make it to these meetings and speak with either the Browns, the mayor, or any other official that help to serve this city. Otherwise, you should take a little advice from those before us and "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 24, 2012 3:48 PM:

" A politically objective reporter shouldn't need ask her readers to rely on the words of others to attest to her objectivity. Her own reporting should suffice. "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 24, 2012 4:22 PM:

" You cannot improve the city by raising taxes on others and not paying your own, no matter how many meetings you hold. To suggest otherwise is nonsense. Furthermore, to suggest that calling on our elected officials to pay their taxes is somehow not "nice" makes even less sense, unless of coarse you are a Lib Dem. "

Seriously? wrote on Jan 25, 2012 1:25 PM:

" Lisa - I find it very refreshing that you posted a comment on this story to set the record straight. It seems like every post on any story ALWAYS takes a political turn. Cudos to you.

And to Dobbs and those criticizing the story and her reasoning...grow up. I had to deal with Lisa a while back and found her to be nothing but a class act. I wish there were more people like her who cared in this city.

While I have no opinion of the Browns and know that you all may be entitled to your own opinions, please don't take shots at the messenger or her credibility. She's worked for The Herald and in this city long enough to have earned that respect. "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 26, 2012 8:25 AM:

" I will gladly refrain from criticizing this "success" story the minute she writes one about a "prominent" Republican elected or appointed city official who is delinquent on his taxes. "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 26, 2012 8:52 AM:

" As an added incentive to this reporter, I won't even criticize her, if in her next story, she chooses not to knowingly hide the fact that this "prominent" Republican official is delinquent on his taxes. "

Lifelong Resident wrote on Jan 26, 2012 3:42 PM:

" You talk of respect Seriously? Like most reporters she has to write a minimum number of stories just to kepp her job each week. When someone from the mayor's office is feeding her puff pieces like this it makes her job easier right? And for the record she doesn't live in NB she only works here as she cannot stand to be here! "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 26, 2012 4:30 PM:

" Wouldn't you know that this self described "local" newspaper that chose to incorporate and pay their taxes in another state, would employ a "local" reporter who lives, and pays her taxes in another city. No wonder they don't care if New Britain's city officials don't pay their taxes. They aren't the ones who will ultimately get stuck paying the difference!

Just when you think the Herald has reached the limits of hypocrisy, it somehow manages to take it to another level. "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 26, 2012 5:43 PM:

" On another subject, it is always this same group of Lib Dems who continually dictate to us that we must feed only "healthy" food our families, who is always seen exercising their right to feed themselves and their children any type of fast "junk" food they wish. "

Lisa Backus wrote on Jan 27, 2012 9:55 PM:

" Hi Dobbs!

No I don't live in New Britain, but I certainly grew to love it and love covering it. I told you before, if there's a great success story out there give it to me. It's doesn't matter what political party they are affiliated with, I'd be glad to do it.

Have a good night! "

Dobbs wrote on Jan 30, 2012 10:18 AM:

" By your own admission, you chose on your own to seek out these Lib Dem City Officials to write their "success" story. No one dumped them in your lap, hence I'm sure you can just as easily seek out a Republican "success" story on your own if you chose to. Finding one who meets the tax delinquent criteria may prove to be a more difficult task though.

As for your claim of having "grown to love New Britain", such a claim has no bearing on whether or not you care if her elected officials pay their taxes or not, if you don't also pay taxes here. People who may not be as fond of the city as you, but do pay taxes to her would probably be more sensitive to the issue than you. "


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